THE REQUIREMENTS FOR OBTAINING THE HAPPIEST LIFE
LEAVE ANY OF THESE OUT,  YOU'LL HAVE LESS THAN YOU COULD HAVE HAD!



You cannot be as happy as you'd like in life unless you do these:


































Part I.  The "overview set up"

__ Run your life by what is most important. 
    __ Set and follow the rule: Don't stop learning or implementing before you've reached the point
         at which something else has a higher payoff. 
    __ Learn what is most beneficial in life, (The Two Biggest Payoffs In Life - Start Here)
__ Learn and know what actually produces happiness/fulfillment/satisfaction so you can live in
    Unconditional Happiness.
Set the guiding objectives:
__ Set down, in writing, what you value (initial very rough version at first, then upgrade as you learn)
__ List what you want to "get" in life (initial very rough version at first, then upgrade as you learn)
__ Learn what is most valuable in life, (Initial survey, then learn as much as you can as you go)

Part II.  Implementation

__ A set schedule that includes all key functions, followed rigorously
    __ Learning, grounding/centering, planning, handling the most important 1st
    __ Always time for personal fulfillment, social 
__ Daily and periodic planning time.
    __ Perspective time - How are things going and what do I want.
    __ Observe and correct asap for the day, week, etc. (Living Life As A Life Champion)
__ Set the "rules" you will follow and get the habit of following them (they must be "doable" and allow for
    human needs!)
__ Learn fully "what there is" in life and the perspective on "losses", practice gratitude (= bringing "what is"
    to mind) - Perhaps the most important for happiness!
__ Learn what the best habits are and then build them (makes life easier, effortless, automatically working)
__ Rest and rejuvenation times that are optimal
__ Maintaining excellent health, energy - and spending the time to do that
__ Learn and understand the high payoff items
    __ Learn and know how to learn well
__ Learn how the body and mind (including emotions) work
    __ Set out exactly what you will do for each of those.
    __ Learn and know how to minimize stress
    __ Learn, understand, and use The Causal Chain For Behaviors - eliminate the "genie".
__ Learning "life" and the wisdom of the wisest and most effective
__ Examining and correcting beliefs for maximum life effectiveness/workability
    __ Learning what the most effective beliefs are (at a minimum, must fix all high cost beliefs,asap!)
    __ Learn and know who you are, dumping comparing and unrealistic expectations
__ Correct the erroneous perception and beliefs related to false threats.  A huge item!
__ Learn, and take,100% responsibility for your life and knowing you are powerful enough to learn and
    able do what is needed in your life no matter what the circumstances are (= to live an unconditional
    life)
    __ Eliminate any victim, powerlessness, dependency beliefs
__ Entertain only progress and/or positive thinking
    __ Thinking of what it takes to solve a problem; solving it quickly
    __ Dump all criticism, faulting, blaming, complaining, resenting, punishing to motivate, etc.
    __ Dump all "stories" that are justifications or reinforces fo victimhood or how bad it is or was.
    __ Dump all negative talk
__ Learn how to think effectively and how engage the higher brain
__ Dump inappropriate control attempts on others and on low or poor payoff items.
__ Dump all low or poor payoff items.
__ Learn the skill and process for effective change
__ Learn what the best habits are and then build them (makes life easier, effortless, automatically working)

Enhancers (Excellent, but after the other items)

Learn/implement top payoff productivity
   increasers
   Lots of them, esp. checklists, rules
Effective reminder systems (what to do, what
   counts, when to do things) so not have to
   remember "a remote brain to access"
Learn how to effectively utilize resources and
   tools for success
Copy already successful examples, don't
   "redesign the wheel"










List Of What To Do In Order Of Highest Impact - Follow This List - Life Will Be Far, Far Better, Easier, And Happier - Link into the quickest life improvers for the highest impact in the shortest time.  

A frequent question:

Do I Have Enough Time To Create A Great Life? 



Energy increases:

As you do the items of quickest and/or highest impact, you'll notice that your psychological energy will increase.  That will give you more than enough energy to complete these.  You'll feel better and better as you go!

Make this page 1 of the main body of the Reminders Notebook.

KNOW THE CORE TO ACHIEVING HAPPINESS

Prioritize by highest payoffs 1st

Run your life by what is most important.  Don't stop learning or implementing before you've reached the point at which something else is more beneficial. 
Learn what is most beneficial in life and has the highest payoffs.

What produces happiness, learn 1st

Learn and know what actually produces happiness/fulfillment/satisfaction, attaining Unconditional Happiness.

Settle for no less than:

Thinking well of yourself and "loving" yourself
Thinking well of life and accepting/knowing the
   realities of life
Thinking well of your life
Thinking well of mankind; compassion and  
   understanding (no blame)
Appreciating life fully (gratitude, etc.)
Minimal stress/anxiety
Kindness to others, contributing to others 
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